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Ready To Burn It All Down
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Impart Some Boundaries?
We’re creating a space where Black women can craft lives that align with their true desires, free from guilt and overwhelm.
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SIS, WE'RE DONE HERE
A Club for Boundaries, Balance, and Becoming Bold
Sis, We’re Done Here is the premier membership club for Black women who are ready to step into a life of intention, courage, and self-prioritization. This is your safe space to learn how to say no with confidence, set boundaries that protect your peace, and begin the journey toward becoming the bold, unapologetic woman you aspire to be.
As a member, you’ll gain access to a supportive community that understands your challenges, celebrates your growth, and equips you with the tools and education to prioritize your well-being without guilt. It’s time to opt out of overextension and step into a life where you come first.
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Black Girl SOFT LIFE
DIGITAL MARKETING
Create. Thrive. Live Softly.
Black Girl Soft Life Digital Marketing is a suite of courses and products designed to empower Black women to build a successful digital marketing business that generates passive income and supports a life of ease and balance. By removing the guesswork, we provide a clear and actionable path to creating a business that aligns with the principles of softer living—where success doesn’t come at the cost of your peace or well-being.
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SERENITY SABBATICAL
Reclaiming Peace and Restoring Balance
The Serenity Sabbatical Retreat offers a safe space for Black women to disconnect from the hustle of daily life, restore their balance, and reconnect with their true selves. Through wellness retreats, guided reflection, and personal coaching, we guide women on a journey of peace, self-discovery, and alignment with their highest purpose. Serenity Sabbatical is designed to help Black women opt out of burnout, stress, and overwhelm, providing them with the tools and support to step into lives that feel balanced, peaceful, and purpose-driven.
2024 Nominee
Best Health & Wellness Podcast
On The Black Woman Opt Out Podcast, we offer Black women conversations on empowerment, peace, and intentional living. Through interviews with thought leaders, entrepreneurs, and wellness experts, the podcast explores how Black women can create lives filled with ease, boundary setting, and intentional living.
Each episode reinforces the brand’s core message—opting out of what no longer serves you, and opting into a life that is intentional, empowered, and authentic.
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Meet Your Guide
Hi, I'm Deandra, a Luxury Wellness and Lifestyle Designer and Founder of The Black Woman Opt Out.
I specialize in curating bespoke wellness and lifestyle solutions for high-achieving Black professional women who are ready to transition into their "do less, be more" era. My work goes beyond traditional coaching—it's about designing an intentional, elevated lifestyle that centers your well-being, reclaims your time, and helps you embody the soft life you deserve.
Through The Black Woman Opt Out, I’ve created a full-service movement that offers tools, resources, and experiences for Black women to step into their power with ease. This includes the Sis, We’re Done Here Club, a dynamic platform offering community, support, and our proprietary boundary-setting empowerment class, The Fancy FU. In this revolutionary space, I teach women not only how to say “no” confidently but also how to guide those in their lives to respect and support their boundaries. Together, we focus on creating sustainable practices that prioritize your peace, energy, and emotional well-being.
Many of my clients come to me overwhelmed by burnout, anxiety, or the pressures of juggling multiple roles and expectations. My approach combines personalized support, lifestyle branding, and boundary mastery to help you reconnect with your passions, purpose, and authentic self. I believe in redefining success to honor your values and personal aspirations, ensuring your life reflects what truly matters most.
For women seeking profound renewal, I design bespoke sabbatical experiences that align with your goals for rest, recharge, and reflection. These are not just breaks—they are intentional journeys of self-discovery and deep care, tailored to help you reimagine what's possible for your life.
With me, you’re not just creating a lifestyle—you’re creating a legacy of ease, empowerment, and joy. Let’s build a life where you thrive unapologetically.
